There is no sense walking around every day of your life either miserable or wishing that your life was different. You can spend all day and night daydreaming and wishing all you want that your life was a certain way or that you could obtain some goal that we always use the word someday with. We always put what is most important to us - in the future. Someday I will do this, someday I will have that. What is it that will make you stop wishing and make you start doing. Someday can really come for you but you have to start the wheels turning. It takes action on your part to make anything come into being. What was that? What you want is unreachable? Well, unless you want to be a big rock star or a nasa astronaut - that could make things a little more unreachable but still not impossible.
Most people usually have things like negative people in their lives who are taking them through a miserable trip through hell. They allow these negative people a one way ticket and refuse to take charge and learn how to set things straight. Others hate their job so much that they are losing their hair and getting diseases. This is literally no joke, I'm not kidding here. They are so afraid to move forward and change because their material possessions are more important than their very lives. What is wrong with this picture. Everyone was born with absolutely nothing and you will die with absolutely nothing. The only thing you will take with you is your memories and your soul growth and believe me when I say, that has nada squada to do with material possessions.
Point being, if you are unwilling to make changes in your life because it is scary to step out of your comfort zone, then you will always be miserable and it doesn't get any better. Year after year, things will become more intense and the worries, the troubles, the issues, they just build up and you break down.
New homework assignment - take your list of pros and cons. Number your list in order of significance. Start with your pros - what is the best thing on your list, make that number one and so on. Then do the same with the cons list. What is the worst thing, make that number one.
Once this is done, sit down and review your pros list. Go over each one and be very thankful and grateful for each one. Then go to that dreaded number one on your cons list. Read it over once or twice then close your eyes. Take several deep breaths and then ask your higher self to help guide you. Ask your higher self, "What can I do to change this?" Then just simply listen. Be aware of your own thoughts because they love to interfere by saying, what about this and what if that. Get rid of them the moment they decide to open their big mouths. lol
Start with something small - the easiest perhaps is to get yourself used to the idea that your issue is already changed. You can do this by simply stating how your life would be if this was already the way you want it to be. For example, if you wanted to get a new job because your boss hates you and makes your life miserable, but you are afraid to quit because you have three kids to feed and you don't know if you can get another job that will make enough money - state over and over in your mind - my new job provides all that I need, I love my new job. You can state anything that resonates with you but be sure that you word it in a way that makes what you are saying in the present - not the future. Do not say, my new job WILL provide all that I need. Saying will make is occur in the future and you will always be chasing after it. It IS providing all that you need.
When you continue to state this over and over and for at least 30 days or more, your mind will believe it and the wheels of manifestation will begin to turn. The Universe responds to what we ask for when we are crystal clear on our intentions. It will start to send you signs but you have to look for them and you have to continue to push at those wheels. You can begin to look in the papers and online for other jobs. Don't expect things to happen any certain way. The Universe does work in very mysterious and wonderful ways so don't put any expectations on HOW it will come about, leave that part up to the Universe. Just do your part and KNOW that you are making this new with come true. Yes, it could take some time to happen because this world is very dense and the Universe needs time to bring things into place, so be patient and have faith - don't give up right before your wish can come true.
Ok, so now you get it right? You can work on more than one thing at a time but if you do, be sure to put the same effort into both projects and always, always, always, show your gratitude of thanks for the wonderful people and things your do have in your life - show it everyday and the Universe will respond faster. I did mention just now that it takes effort on your part to get what you want and it may feel a bit scary at first to step into those unknown or unused waters BUT you will be glad that you did!
Happy manifesting - it works, it worked for me. I needed a vehicle very badly quite some time back when my three kids were very young. My car was old and breaking down a lot and my kids were all involved in extracurricular activities and we always had to bring along this person or that one so I needed more room as well. I found a van for $10,000 and it was in great shape but how in the world was I going to afford this being I couldn't afford car payments at that time in my life. I began to turn the wheels of manifestation and within 4 months, I had the cash - yes the cash to buy my van - it wasn't the same exact van but I got one that looked just like it, same make and model, same color, same price and it was all mine and it served me well.